It’s no small stretch that what men want is love and affection. Although there are some guys that want beer and sports, those are actually few and far between, unlike what you see on television and in the movies. For most men, it goes all the way back to their childhood and the way they felt around their mothers. Yes, that sounds a bit on the creepy side, but follow a long and you might be surprised at what could turn out to be an emotional response to familiarity and comfort.

What men want can be broken down into only a couple of aspects, the first aspect being familiarity. Most men are secretly scared of change and want nothing to do with it unless it’s forced upon them. They like the old worn out comfortable chair or sofa. The clothes that have holes in them and the old shoes that seem to be falling apart at the seams. They like the idea of being around people that know them for who they are and not having to change themselves to make others more comfortable. They like to have things the same day in and day out, a routine that offers them something good, but doesn’t change.

If you think what men want is money and fame, then you might be right, but it’s a different aspect of money and fame than being a superstar or sports hero. It’s more of a comfortable living and friendship type of thing, instead. While being rich and famous is something they might dream about, most men are happy with having enough money to do the things they enjoy, and as for being famous, if someone calls to them on the street and says a friend of theirs told them a story about them from last summer, you will notice a huge smile spread across their face. As long as that story wasn’t too embarrassing for them, that is all the fame they will need for that day.

What men want is affection and true love from their partners, too. The reaffirming aspirations that their mother gave them as a child put into the playful hands of the modern male by their wives and girlfriends will make them the happiest man in the world. If they have done something well, let them know how much you appreciate what they have done. Make them their favorite meal or take them out to their favorite restaurant to show them that you care about them and let them know what they mean to you.

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